Aljur Abrenica Reacts To Kylie Padilla's 'KMJS' Interview: 'Humantong lang talaga sa hindi na kami masaya'

Aljur Abrenica recently opened up about how he's feeling amid the drama surrounding his separation from his wife, Kylie Padilla.

In an interview with entertainment news anchor and columnist Jobert Sucaldito, Aljur shared his reaction to Kylie's interview last week which aired on Kapuso Mo, Jessica Soho.

In the interview, Kylie addressed Aljur's now-deleted "Tell them who cheated first" Facebook post. In a press conference for his movie Manipula, Aljur admitted he posted it "out of impulse" and that it wasn't his intention to share scathing remarks against his estranged wife.

"After kong mapanood… Actually, ang ganda nga, e. Habang pinapanood ko siya, naaalala ko yung mga magagandang pinagsamahan namin."

"Nakita niyo yung mga appreciation namin sa isa't-isa, [pagmamahalan] namin… Humantong lang talaga sa hindi na kami masaya."

Jobert referred to the part in the KMJS interview wherein Kylie shared one of her most beautiful memories with Aljur, when he took care of her while she was pregnant with their first child, Alas. 

Aljur revealed that he also treasures that memory with Kylie and how he even stopped working during the duration of her pregnancy so he could be there to support her. He also shared how he would cook noodles a lot for Kylie at that time since she would be craving them. 

"Yung pag-aalaga ko sa kanya, isa 'yon sa pinakamasaya ko rin [na alaala] kasi yung pagsilbihan yung asawa ko noon ay masaya na rin ako noon. 'Di talaga ako nagtrabaho ng nine months."

"Araw-araw ko siyang kasama, inalalayan ko. Araw-araw nagluluto ng noodles."

"'Yon lang ang kine-crave niya, e. Binantayan ko talaga. Ang dami kong magagandang memories sa family ko."

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He also confirmed that despite their issues, he and Kylie have remained in constant communication as they co-parent their kids, Alas and Axl.

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Aljur appealed to netizens to "move on," to focus on their good memories instead, and to refrain from "judging others" as this is already affecting him and his family.

"Sana makapag-move on na tayo kasi 'yon ang pinakamakakabuti. Instead of judging others, let's just remember the good things and see to it na yung pagmamahal mo and appreciation mo sa tao. Kasi tao lang tayo. Sometimes, yung mga comments, naaapektuhan na yung pamilya, naaapektuhan na 'ko. Hindi na siya nakakatuwa. Kasi okay na kami, e. 'Di ba?"

Jobert proceeded to talk about how a person typically goes through stages of grief when experiencing loss before being able to move on. Aljur confirmed that he is already past the acceptance and forgiveness stages.

Jobert said, "Before you can be able to move on, siyempre may mga acceptance first, forgiveness, then moving on. Gano'n daw 'yon, e. Stages daw 'yan, e. You cannot move on that easily if you don't accept that fact, kung anong mga nangyayari."

"Ikaw, nasa anong stage ka pa lang? Nasa stage ka na pa lang ba ng ano, acceptance tapos ka na?"

Aljur: "Yes, acceptance, yes."

Jobert: "Forgiveness?"

Aljur: "Forgiveness…"

Jobert: "[In] the process? Tapos na rin?"

Aljur: "Tapos na. Ang pinakaano doon is kung paano patatawarin yung sarili mo, e."

Jobert: "Yung ikaw mismo."

Aljur: "Oo. Pinatawad ko na ba yung sarili ko? Yes."

Despite everything that's happened, Aljur still believes he and Kylie can still become friends.

"Kung titingnan niyo sa sampung taon na pagkakakilala namin ni Kylie... Magkaibigan talaga kami. I think sa 10 years, I know she knows this. We're best friends. Kasi isa't-isa yung takbuhan namin."

"Iba lang sitwasyon ngayon. Pero ako, I'm open kasi 'di mo puwedeng kalimutan yung sampung taon niyong pagkakaibigan."

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Aljur also said he is willing to reach out to Kylie when the time comes that he is ready. He admitted that he committed mistakes and said he believes that God has a greater plan for them.

"Ako, naniniwala ako doon sa malaking dahilan. If you're going to look at it, hindi naman kami perpekto. I know, ako, nagkamali ako."

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"'Saka minsan tayong mga tao, kailangang may mangyaring matindi bago tayo matuto.

"Tayo rin ang may kagagawan."

Watch Aljur's interview with Jobert here:

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Source: Cosmo PH